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Soccer is an outdoor sport in the summer, but playing on frozen ground, ice and snowpack in air wind-chilled to 0 degrees isn’t a thing.

Every year, the Falcons go in search of a recreation center to use a couple times a week for some pick-up games, scrimmages and all-around skills work. And every year they go to the closest playground/rec center to the Gayborhood: Palumbo Recreation Center at 10th and Fitzwater streets. Yet every year, they are told it’s already all full. So again this winter, the players will trudge further south to the Guerin Recreation Center at 16th and Jackson streets.

So I dropped over to Palumbo to check things out and it all comes across as above-board. The traditional way for the rec centers to book seems to be that groups that have already been established get first swing to renew, which makes sense. And with a number of groups returning every year because of their school associations, it doesn’t change much, if at all, year to year.

To be fair, the scheduler at Palumbo did connect the Falcons with Guerin in the first place and it continues to be a fall-back option. This fall, the group is tentatively practicing there beginning Oct. 31 on mixed days and times for a couple of weeks and then settling into a late-night 7:50-9:50 p.m. Monday/Tuesday routine.

I was also told that Palumbo High School could be an option for one night a week or more, which is much more convenient. There is also the new gymnasium at the Marion Anderson Rec Center at 17th and Fitzwater streets, which just opened weeks ago so, theoretically, it should have a plethora of available time slots.

What all this says is what we already knew: The city has limited space available for limited hours. It also points out an issue that sports groups share, which is finding available space in a convenient gym on a consistent basis. Stonewall Sports, for example, has used everywhere from FDR Park to Marconi Plaza to a spot in North Philly and Drexel University, to name a few.

Keep up to date on what’s where through the winter at the Falcons’ Facebook page. Search Philadelphia Falcons. For Stonewall Sports, the website is


Liberty and tennis for all

The Philadelphia Liberty Tennis Association is having an autumnal soiree 10 a.m.-noon Oct. 22 in FDR Park. The social event includes food and drinks and is open to members and non-members alike. If you play tennis and are looking for a regular group with whom to play, this is your chance to meet some people and get involved. The courts are located just inside the entrance off Pattison Avenue near Broad Street.

PLTA has weekend hours reserved for play in the park, one of the perks of being a member — that, and having a group of like-minded racketeers to contact for a game of singles. Once the nice weather gives it up to old man winter, the group moves indoors. The organization has not determined where they will hunker down for the winter.

For more information on the social or to keep tabs on the group if you’re interested in joining, go to


Graveyard shift

It’s time again for MANNA’s annual Run4UrLife fundraiser at West Laurel Hill Cemetery. This is a short 3K walk/run event that begins around 4 p.m. Oct. 22 with food, games, fun and drinks for your entertainment, followed by spooky surprises after dark.

The walk/run part starts at sundown and weaves through the cemetery (and I might add, it’s a classic cemetery without street lights or lighted pathways) where sounds, sights and who knows what will jump out at you!

Registration is $35 and all of the proceeds go into MANNA’s coffins. Er, uh, coffers. Go to for complete details.


Short stops

  • Join Fresh Meat any time! Beginning Oct. 2, The Philly Roller Derby Fresh Meat practices will be rolling admission, meaning you can join whenever you want! All skill levels are allowed. You must be 18 or over to participate. Check out the Facebook event page for more details:
  • One-upping the Falcons, and not a part of its overall umbrella, Starfinder is running women’s pick-up soccer 10:30 a.m.-noon Sundays at 4015 Main St. in Manayunk. Women only, 18 and over, and you must sign a waiver. There is no fee.

Get Out and Play runs approximately twice a month. To share where and what you get out and play with, email: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..

Most LGBT couples spend upwards of $5,000 to go through the adoption process in the United States. As always, Canada is about to make life that much easier for LGBT couples having families. Lawmakers in Ontario introduced legislation last week to give same-sex parents who aren’t biologically related to their children the same legal rights as heterosexual moms and dads. No longer will people who were not previously legally considered parents have to live in fear they cannot make medical and other decisions about their children if a spouse becomes incapacitated.

Since March, a small group of fitness enthusiasts led by Eloy Muñoz have been sharing their Saturday mornings in some high-intensity interval training in Fairmount Park. Edgley Field is the spot for the early-morning workouts, which, if you’re familiar with Falcons Soccer, you know is the space near the reservoir. It’s a fairly centrally located spot with plenty of parking.

Mazzoni Center has joined with several other health-care providers and LGBT organizations around the United States in calling on manufacturers of injectable estrogen to address the serious shortage that has been affecting trans women for the past several months. This shortage is affecting the availability of Delestrogen and its generic counterpart, estradiol valerate, in 40 mg/mL dosages, which is the preferred regimen for many transgender women.

Whenever I tell someone that older adults are one of the fastest-growing age groups living with a diagnosis of HIV or AIDS, I am met with a look of confusion or shock. I know it is tough to envision Grandma, or even Ma, finding partners and engaging in sexual behaviors, but guess what, folks: Our elders are still sexually active and are still susceptible to sexually transmitted infections! The AIDS Community Research Institute of America reports that 69 percent of LGBT older adults were sexually active within the last year.

This summer, Philadelphia beheld the majesty that was the Democratic National Convention. To be chosen as the city to host the DNC was an honorable designation, which meant constant traffic in our tiny cobbled streets, our favorite bars packed to capacity and once-public spaces hedged off, reserved for the political elite. If we loved anything about it, it had to be the flare of constant excitement, or at least the drove of donkeys speckling the sidewalks. That was definitely fun. 

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